Thursday, October 25, 2012

Como se dice “update”?

God is good all the time. Amen? We’re four months in, and four months ago we had no idea what life would look like by this point. We’ve lived and learned, and we’ll continue to do so. What’s the point in living if learning stops? Duh! 
The Grandparents—There were so many factors that we didn’t consider when we made this jump, but that’s what jumping into something is, right? Not totally considering all of the factors. We’ve faced some challenges sharing a dwelling space with Grandma and Grandpa, but I feel like we can genuinely say the good has significantly outweighed the bad. We do appreciate prayers for contentment and patience in relation to the kitchen and the shower. I miss having the freedom to cook whatever and whenever I please, and we miss hot water like we’d never imagined. I do; however, have the most amazing husband who has set up a mini kitchen inside of our casita that consists of a refrigerator, electric burner, electric oven, a pot, and a pan. These things have saved our lives since we opened the office because often, by the time we get home my grandparents have already closed up for the night. Not to mention, that on chilly, rainy days we can heat up water in the pot and pour it into the solar shower bag for HEAVENLY agua caliente.
                On another note, my grandparents’ health and energy levels have improved drastically. John has been treating Grandpa’s back pain and nerve issues, and he has moved from wanting a wheel chair to wanting to be able to walk without a walker. Since the office has opened, John and Grandpa still go out in the wee hours of the morning. They buy Grandpa’s daily lottery, avocados and other things, and they eat empanadillas (similar to a meatpie) at a local bar—yes, at 6:30 en la mañana, and, yes, I said bar. Because of these outings, John has become something of a local celebrity among men 70 and older. They recognize him as con Juan a la plaza en la mañana.
That was Grandpa's first day with his new snazzy walker.
He's come so far since then!

They're off!

Oh, goodness. :)

We got the man in the garden only so he could tell us we did everything wrong.
Notice he's sitting on an extra shower chair. Hey, they're waterproof, right?
               My grandma is doing fantastically as well, but she doesn’t like the thought of it. I laugh as I write because I don’t mean to portray her negatively by any means; nevertheless, she loves the attention that comes with being sick. She tells everyone that she can’t walk and her husband is in the bed all day long. I tell everyone that both grandparents could run a marathon tomorrow if they did it slowly. Since the office has opened, she takes full advantage over any outing she can get. She uses her medicine running out, telling us only the day that she has zero pills left, of course, as a way to get out of the house. And, she demands it be me that takes her because each time she has ulterior motives. Often times, we go to the pharmacy, and then she has to stop by the cosmetics store and the shoe store on the way to the car. Then, before we go home she begs for an “MMmmm Mapree”—which is a Frappe, she just can’t pronounce it. Yes, she is Diabetic, but she doesn’t listen to us when we talk about the importance of food. She argues that she’s 80-years-old and can eat what she pleases. She attended Catholic mass for the first time in several months last week, which was great. She loooooved hearing, “Gloria! Que Linda!” 
She might kill me if she saw these, so no one tell her!
Those are banana tree leaves from the banana plant!

Making pastelles!
At the Festival Patronales!
Grandma wanted to go because she hadn't gone in years...
this was the first time in my pregnancy that I lost my dinner.
Boo to the yucky fair smells, but Grandma had a GREAT time! :)


At the mall, of course. It's a once a week trip nowadays.
Look how cute they can be!
Me and John—Well, as is known, we are pregnant! Surprise! To everyone! Including us! This was certainly not in our “four month plan.” However, we feel very blessed, and we know the Lord never gives us more than we can handle. We have also found a church and a small group that has been nothing but the Lord’s doing. We’ve been attending Church Without Walls for several weeks now. During the summer months, they were offering Saturday night services that we LOVED because it meant we had both weekend mornings to take out my grandparents. They’re not offering that anymore, but we love our small group on Thursday nights and the beautiful view on Sunday mornings. God graciously gave us friends that are about 10 weeks ahead of us in pregnancy! They have been through the same “how to have a baby in Puerto Rico” journey as we have—even with both of us starting with the same doctor! We have absolutely treasured their friendship and hospitality the last few weeks more than they can know.
This is what non-cursing people call the "OH SNAP" moment!

I had a vision about how to announce since day 1.


Darn ocean!


Got it!

Dad and Stephanie sent a preggers care package:
after summer sales clothes from Target since my summer never ends,
lemon Bath and Body Works soap because we had no way to get it ourselves,
and seasoning that someone else requested...

I think he's eaten one or the other every day since.
                We are impatiently excited about seeing 3 parts of the Barrington family in November, and we have good times planned. You should probably pray for their comfort as well, as they’re staying with us, and we’re not totally sure they know what they’re getting into. We can’t wait to show them around the island, including John and I seeing some things that are new to us too!
                Lastly, we CANNOT WAIT to see friends and family in December!! I should probably also warn everyone we’ll be staying with that I plan to take a bath and a shower every day just to take advantage of the hot water!! We can’t wait to meet all of the new babies that have come into the world since we’ve been here. Babies Hazel, Ainsley, Pitts twins, and James—we hope we get to meet you all in person while we’re stateside!! 
Centro Quiropractico de Hormigueros—I am happy to be writing this in between PAYING patient appointments!! The first few weeks were certainly slow…and terrifying. We felt like we did things the smart way—no loans—using specific money that was saved for this purpose—etc. Wow, though, have we had serious moments full of financial fear. Fear though, that is not of the Lord. Ugh, it’s so convicting. I hate that our worry is a slap in God’s face, yet we do it anyway. We have each sat at numerous tables in numerous locations advertising for this office. We’ve passed out hundreds of flyers in festivals and parking lots. John’s offered free physical exams and discounted adjustments. We’ve had several patients come for their physicals and then not return; others made appointments and then didn’t show up at all. Then, all of a sudden we had walk-ins! Referred by doctors and nurses in the hospital we’re in, and they keep coming back! We also started offering the option of a physical exam and an adjustment in the same appointment. This has proven profitable as well. So, thanks so much for the prayers! Keep them coming because we are by no means at a true profit yet, but we have hope. God brought us here, so we have to learn to trust Him. 
 
We have air at the office!!
In Other News—The car in the drive-way is gone! It only took nine months. Despite the fact that we still have a random tire and car battery in front of the house, we are pleased to have open space with shade.
 


It's all clean now!
The garden has been sadly neglected by its pregnant gardener, so we’ve had some casualties. The herbs, cherry tree, and pepper plants are happy and fruitful despite it all, but the squash and strawberries are stagnant. Alive, but not producing. We have attempted celery, eggplant, and tomato by seed to see if anything turns out differently for them. Unfortunately, John murdered my celery by leaving it out during a storm…he said he would move it if it rained, and it rained. We haven’t had ceremonies for the fallen, but my grandparents did have workers come to clear out the front yard, and it looks great. I’m ready to figure out a schedule and get back out there to play around with so many new possibilities. The front is where the sun shines!
 
May the little baby celery and onion rest in peace.


Peppers!
 We have discovered a family owned coffee shop by the office that we are hoping to adopt as our own like we did JavaMeUp while we were in Valley Ranch. Both owners speak English and today I had a tomato omelet with toast and juice for THREE DOLLARS! It doesn’t get much better than that! 
Thanks for prayers. Thanks for encouragement. Thanks for reminders that God is faithful. Dios de bendiga.

 

Friday, October 12, 2012

Preguntas Están También

“John the Baptist, who was in prison, heard about all the things the Messiah was doing. So he sent his disciples to ask Jesus, ‘Are you the Messiah we’ve been expecting, or should we keep looking for someone else?’  
Jesus told them, ‘Go back to John and tell him what you have heard and seen— the blind see, the lame walk, the lepers are cured, the deaf hear, the dead are raised to life, and the Good News is being preached to the poor.’” Matt. 11:2-4
A speaker brought this passage to my attention last January at a student retreat, and ever since it’s been one of my favorites. I had so many questions and struggles at the time. In my Bible, I have a written timeline next to this chapter from November 2011 to February 2012.
“Mrs. June passed away. Libbie Ainsworth, a college student at church, passed away. Extreme pressure to pass an athlete at school. Grandpa in New Jersey had a stroke. Grandparents in Puerto Rico had a car accident. Evaristo, a student at school, committed suicide. John and I have tickets to move to Puerto Rico.” 
And it stops. I was broken. In a rough place. And I had been for months. So, I thought this passage was reassuring because John the Baptist had proclaimed Jesus as the Messiah. He had preached and prophesied his little heart out, but, here, the speaker brought to my attention, he doubted. Jesus hadn’t been the literal king some were hoping Him to be. He wasn’t a politician…He was loved by some and hated by most. This probably wasn’t what John was expecting either. So, Jesus tells him that in times of doubt, look at the evidence. Remember all that I’ve done—miracles.  
John and I have had an interesting several weeks, and an interesting 24 hours. 
So, yesterday at 3:00pm, I was ridiculously excited to pick up our first batch of organic produce from the local coop lady. It has been extremely difficult maintaining the lifestyle of nutrition that we embraced in Dallas. Puerto Ricans love their starches, and they make vegetables and many fruits extremely expensive. We have decided; however, that we have to get back to those eating habits. Period. The only part of the situation that I wasn’t excited about was driving the car because it’d been making weird sounds. I’d been wanting to take it to a mechanic  for about a week. Well, I was supposed to meet at the Church’s Chicken across from the university in Mayaguez. Apparently there are two of those. I waited until 4:15pm (remember, island time), and finally the nice lady called me…and she didn’t see a yellow Ford Escape in the parking lot she was in. Greeeeeat. She had more stops to make, so we agreed to meet at a Walgreens just a little further down the highway. There were absolutely no parking spots empty, so we both saw each other and stopped behind some parked cars to exchange money and food. We thanked each other and each got into our individual vehicles. She drove away. 
My car wouldn’t start. 
Let me tell you something. I’ve had a few breakdowns in the past couple of weeks. If you’re unaware, this typing girl has a 10 week old fetus in her belly, and, blame the hormones if you want to, but I am unconventionally emotional. And anxious. And terrified. About a number of things. Finances (we also just started our own business, by the way), living situation, upcoming trips of people coming to us and us going to them, and the list goes on! So, all of those things flooded my mind in the seconds that I heard that terrible silence after turning the key in the ignition several times. After regaining composure, I called my husband to tell him what happened—using no kind words, mind you. Then, a God-sent middle-aged gentleman asked me if I needed help, and he managed to get two other God-sent men to help push the car into a finally emptied nearby parking spot. Ugh, when I was finally alone, I let go. Let it aaaaall go. I thought about several people I could call to make me feel better and have someone to talk to, but then I worried my phone battery would die, and decided against it. The Lord gave me my bearings back and I managed to get a tow truck to come and make a Pepboys close to our house the destination. 
Meanwhile, John was at the office. He went to the front desk of the hospital to ask if anyone had a break coming up that could they would use to bring him to me. Instead of taking him, one of the MOST WONDERFUL nurses in the world said that he could take her car. She’s only known us a month or so! He arrive, and we spent a while waiting for the tow and then waiting at the Pepboys…only to find out Bumblebee would have to stay overnight. We came back to hospital expecting to call a public car (there aren’t really taxis or other public transportation vehicles here), but the MOST WONDERFUL nurse said she could do one better. She took us to her parents’ home where her other vehicle was, and she told us to keep it overnight until we figured out everything with our Bumblebee. How amazing is God in that story!?
Now, times have been busier than the summer, so this is only one of many neat things the Lord has done for us while we’ve been here. I have not had the time (or energy…lately) to document so many other stories in detail. What I will say is this. I am not John the Baptist. I am not a prophet or a preacher. But there has been an internal struggle inside of me that I believe is similar to the one inside of him as he sat in that prison cell.  
Are we crazy for coming to Puerto Rico?
Now that it’s cooler at night, do I seriously have to take a cold shower?
Do we really have enough savings for this?
Have we lost our minds opening a business?
Is this office ever going to make us profit?
How were we not careful enough to be pregnant right now?
(Even though we are excited!)
A couple of weeks ago, I was in a little bit of a rough place again. No timeline written in my Bible…just down and out. But what I love about Matthew 11 is Jesus’ answer: look at the evidence. And let me tell you, I have no idea how anyone alive has ever seen any portion of the world and not believed. I don’t get how a person can look at the ocean and not be in awe, or how a gardener can watch something grow and not be amazed. I don’t understand how a woman can have life form inside of her and not wonder about a Creator. Ponder. Only to come to the conclusion that there must be One. Only One. And He is God.
So, if you took the time to read this different style today, please know life is not perfect. We have a hefty bill for that car, and we don’t have any answers to any of the questions above. However, it is all right to have questions sometimes. John the Baptist did. And, wow, did Jesus love John the Baptist! Jesus also gave him the journey of a lifetime, and we feel like that’s what we’re on right now. A journey of life lessons filled with humility, and conviction--at the worry we sometimes allow to overload our human brains. 
Gracias Señor por las preguntas.
Gracias Señor por Juan el Bautista.
Gracias, Señor, que todo va a estar bien - sólo vistazo a la evidencia.
There is a lot of evidence.

 

Friday, October 5, 2012

Centro Quiropractico de Hormigueros


Thomas Edison is quoted saying, “The doctor of the future will give no medicine, but will interest her or his patients in the care of the human frame, in a proper diet, and in the cause and prevention of disease.” 
I take great pride in my husband and his calling to chiropractic, and I pray, with everything in me, that the Lord has a plan because...la…oficina…es…abierto!! We’re OPEN! 
It’s been a journey to get here. A lot of patience and remembering that island time is its own time, but we’re here! What used to be a labor and delivery room is now Centro Quiropráctico de Hormigueros!
Old style delivery room under construction


John's chiropractic table at our house under construction
The room when the walls started to go up

 
The small office room when the construction was finished
 
Move in day!
 
John loves his PT!
 

Little office

Don't worry, it's two sided.

New business cards

Come in! Special prices until Nov. 10th!
First day!

Shhhh...the doc and the secretary have a thing for each other.
Again, don't worry, they're married! :)

Putting up the credentials

La espalda es seguro con este hombre!
 
Ooops! Meant to take this down. It was just a catnap after all my work was finished,
but he caught me...
Why chiropractic? I’ll let someone else’s website explain that one!
http://www.yourspine.com/Chiropractic+Care.aspx
Please pray for PATIENTS.  And if you’re in Puerto Rico, stop by! We are in CDT Hormigueros. It's exit 162 off of #2. Call us if you need to! 787-538-3533!
Remember, the Power that made the body is the Power that heals the body. He created us that way. Take care of yourself because you are the temple of the Living God.